Last week I had the opportunity to speak with several
parents and volunteers during “Adventure Day” a fun day filled with activities
for the entire school. I was able to speak with a mother who currently has two
of her children in school named Mrs. L. I asked her how she felt about parent involvement
and she could not stress how wonderful it is to be able to help out and be able
to volunteer in her child’s class, allowing her to be near her children. I
noticed as we spoke that she did not once say how important it is and how her
support is helping her children academically. I explained why I ask and referred
to the paper I am doing as she thought it was a great topic. I began to explain
to her how her involvement is a big deal and how it allows her children to be
motivated, gain better grades and have a more positive attitude and behavior.
She was very appreciative and said she never really looked at it that way.
I also had the opportunity to speak with Mrs. M. who has 1 child
who attends the school. I spoke with her about parent involvement and she
stressed that she does try to help her child at home but does not help in the
school. She asked me how can she help, puzzled, I explained that there are many
ways she can participate or help, through assisting in the classroom, helping
in the lunchroom, volunteering, tutoring, field trips, or share history with
the classroom. She said she had no idea that she can even help in so many ways.
I strongly feel that this is part of the problem, parents are not aware of how
they can help, how their support helps their child, and what they can do. That
is why I said to both Moms; “this is why I choose parent involvement” they just
looked at me and smiled.
I believe that holding an hour meeting one eveing with parents to inform them how they can help in school and at home with resources can help those parents who are clueless and allow them to help there child. Parents would appreciate this and have a better understanding.